GROW YOUR BLOG: BUILDING RELATIONSHIPS & COMMUNITY
Honestly, I donāt think Iād be where I am today if it werenāt for those people I had built relationship with!
There is no better way to grow your blog (and business) than to actively build real relationships and community with other bloggers and entrepreneurs⦠online and offline.
Brief history:
My first big breakthrough was when I did an interview with Sarah Macklem of The Yellow Cape Cod (you can read my interview with Sarah here). Sarah also shared me with her readers.
I didnāt ask Sarah to share me, she just did and I saw a huge jump in traffic and new readers.Ā THIS was when I discovered how important it was to connect with other bloggers.
Fast forward to today (actually two weeks ago):
I met face-to-face, for the first time, four bloggers in Naples, Florida at the beautifully renovated Beach Cottage of Shauna (you can check out where we stayed here) for a āblogger girlās tripā. This mini vacation was with:
Brittany of Addisonās Wonderland, Shauna of The House of Silver Lining, Bree of ZDesign At Home, and Erin of The Sunny Side Up.
I had first met these lovely ladies online (via Instagram), then through their blogs and on the phone. Some became clients, but all became friends ā real friends! We just āgetā each other and because of this fact, we have community and will continue to go through life personally and professionally together!
Weāve also been officially tagged āThe Squadā thanks to Brittany arriving with those great Squad T-shirts (main post photo) ā why didnāt I think of that!
Building these types of relationships and community with other bloggers is key to your blogs growth. And why Iām sharing my 6 tips on how to grow your blog by building relationships and community:
- Help others first. I like to write blog posts that help others, but also answering emails and responding to comments on your blog and social media platforms are great ways to help others first.
- Create a map. Sit down and create a list of 10+ bloggers you want to connect with in the next 6 months. This would be a list of people you want to have an ongoing conversation with over time. Perhaps its people you like/admire or would love to work or collaborate with. I like to connect with other bloggers who are go-getters⦠itās not all about people who are bigger or more successful than you are!
- Engage. Use social media platforms to show your face around, have a few short conversations, and no longer be an anonymous stranger. Note: Iāve gained several clients who saw me (and read my āconversationsā) with others on Instagram. Another good idea is to respond to comments AND comment on other blogs.
- Be Yourself. Donāt try to pretend to be someone else. If another blogger doesnāt like you as you are, your long-term relationship is doomed, so move on and find someone who does like you and what you have to offer.
- Connect Online. Once you create an authentic connection and find that āyouāre birds of a featherā (meaning you have similar things in common), you tend to enjoy and hang out together ā this could be in direct messaging, emails, phone calls, in private Facebook groups, etc. Blogs and social media platforms make it easier to share and authentically connect on an on-going basis.
- Get offline and start hooking up and/or attending conferences and events that the people you like are attending. Get out of your āofficeā and start meeting bloggers face-to-face. Maybe you wonāt do a vacation together (like #thesquad), but maybe a local blogger lunch social or a conference might be the way to meet up.
As I stated earlierā¦
There is no better way to grow your blog than to build relationships and community with other bloggers!
I hope these tips gave you some solid ideas on how to grow your blog AND form genuine connections that are meaningful to you personally and professionally!
Love this Tana, and what great reminders! I especially like #2 š xoxo
Always good to have a “road map” so that you know where you’re going! xoxo
This is excellent advice. I find when you reach out people respond accordingly.
You are so right!
Love your recap and feel so blessed to have you in my life Tana. Great advice to your readers too!
xoxo
Ditto! So glad to have you doing life + blogging with me. xo
Perfect Tana!! Love seeing all the fun pics of the “squad”!
We had the best time… and nobody was bothered if someone was on their phone! haha
Feeling so blessed to have you for my marketing BFF, Tana!! Such a great post for your readers (and your SQUAD) and I can’t wait until we meet again next year at the cottage;). And thanks for a great recap!!
I’m already looking forward to next years! haha
Love this post Tana! It was such a treat getting to know you better and hang out with you during our trip! I agree with everything you said! On-line relationships are so great for your blog and even better.. just a blast making fun new friends with similar interests! Can’t wait to hang with you again sweet friend! And work with you too. š xo
I just might head to Cali next girlfriend! I want to see your pad (and of course you) up close and personal. xo
So perfect Tana! You nailed it…help others first. I love that you chose that to be number 1 because it is so true and such a good way to connect and a great way to live your life. Well done!!! PS: I’m incredibly grateful that I have connected with you. xoxo
It is so true! and the rest just comes easy after that. You are THE BEST and I’m blessed to call you a friend – in every sense of the word! xoxo
Thanks for sharing! Very helpful info š Starting on #2 right away!
Good girl! You’ll be surprised how helpful #2 is… keep me posted!